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There's alot of 'September babies' whom I am very close with. Xiao ah!
We had a conversation abt best friends. She told abt her best friend who passed away and how the friendship went before she was gone. They would be straight to each other on their point of views if they knew the other party did smtg wrong. Yet, give respect to the other opinion. Yes.. It hurts to know your best friend did not stand by your side and being against you. But she said, if that point of view is to help you to be a better person, why not accept it and learn. Being the last person to know abt her best friend had left with the word of 'Goodbye' the day before, she said it felt that it is like you lost the mirror image whr you brings it together with you always. As though the mirror shattered to the ground and it is impossible to get it fixed to have its perfect shape without the crack lines on the mirror. The same night she had a dream, that her best friend hugged her and tears starting to roll down their cheeks and she said 'Thank You' to her and apologise for not telling her abt her health condition. She had a brain cancer which was just detected 2 days before her death. The next day, she asked the husband of her best friend whether it is true that she died because of brain cancer, and he nodded and told her tt her best friend said she would tell her abt the health conditions by herself before she left the world. Eventually, her best friend was too late to inform and so she told her abt it thru her dreams.
It sounds like a fairytale story to you? Well, it is not one. I can't even make up one like this. The person who experienced this is Ibu. Yes.. my mother. She believed in her friendship very much. Or I should say, they believed in the friendship so much.
She always reminds me, "A best friend is whom you call as someone who loves you, being the person who against the wrong things you do, still never gives up on you, makes sure you learn from your mistakes, who gives you a wake up call when you feel down even at the peak of lo-self esteem, their discouraging words are actually words of encouragement for you to move on further and they can even do the worst things that is to remind of your pasts so that you'll stop the things that may hurt you again in the future or present. If the word 'trust' is questioned by others, reply it with confidence, no hesitations."
Which I recalled myself on one of those incidents whr a girlfriend was questioned by another on how much she trusted me. Honestly, I am really glad as you know whr you stand in my world. Question and brainwash them for all others want to... At the end,there is nothing that I am at loss.
Thank you best friends... For being the person you've been towards me. I am not offended by all the scoldings and naggings abt my nightlife and etc. Cos there are things that I can't see whr you able to see it.
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