" today Saturday, January 28, 2006 time 9:25 PM
Thoughts for the day...
My opinion: At times we women do feel for others who are in pain, in difficult situations, are hurt and whatever u can think of. We usually try to put ourselves in their shoes and understand how these people feel. Nothing wrong in that...infact it's much appreciated. But in my point of view, we don't have to voice out how much we really feel and understand them...As the saying goes,
"Note to self; if people aren't asking you, they usually don't want the
information, just a listening ear."
It will be enough if we can say a prayer for them. So i don't see a point if we try very hard to put in words explaining to them...which your intentions might be misunderstood...especially if we happen to be an outsider. In the end...both parties are screwed and bamm... there goes another dispute...See...there will be no ending... LerR!..."
-posted by sLumberfIr
this post is straight-forward,simple and understandable. aint negative for a thought but depends on how readers wanna regard it.
i do not expect others to listen to my advice and abide by it.advice is an option for a guide in making a decision.i believed tt by the end of it,us who suffer when a wrong decision made and gotta face it.seeking advice frm others is either to boost our confidence level or to feel degraded.either ways,it is still a positive thing.thr's no right or wrong advice.diff ppl,diff perspective of life.nothing can make others to hv the same opinions of aspects in life,maybe somewhat similar.to be assured tt i know,i am in no position to advice ppl for now..coz thr's many things in life tt me myself nd to be advised of.if ppl ask for it,i shall then voice out.
i was laughed at and humiliated..myself to be blamed.but i don't believe tt shld hv stopped me frm living.tt can't stop me frm being happy.tt can't stop me frm achieving my goals.instd,it have make me to keep on going.yes..it is tough. everyone knows tt for sure.
nothing shld be expected bt just satisfaction of one self in return,gd enough.
an additional to it, listening is an important assets in one of the believes.
and now..im running late!! sorry hunz!
confessed at
10:46 AM
